Over the years, I've had the chance to explore my kinky side a lot and it's a part of myself that I really love. I find being queer and kinky brings opportunities to explore pleasure, personality and connection in a really amazing way.
The role that comes most naturally to me is being in charge, for some I'm Sir for others Daddy. I also enjoy being a Big Bro, and there's a lot of fun to be had in switching around.
I have a preference for bears, cubs, brats (love a challenge) and the like, but I don't discriminate and love having the chats in general. Making friends and connections in our community is a big thing for me. I’m poly and have two wonderful and sweet kinky boyfriends who mean the world to me.
I'm an avid photographer (it's part of my day to day work as well), and really looking to build more of a kink photography portfolio, particularly to reflect the diverse bodies, fetishes and personalities in our community.
With or without kink, I enjoy having chats, pints, meeting up for board games/good movies with lads (always a plus if you're of the nerdy/geek persuasion). I love literature, theatre and performance, modern art, cabaret and burlesque, and playing video games. My day job is all about social justice and that's something I'm hugely passionate about.
I know it can be difficult starting a conversation, but I'm not too likely to respond to just a 'Hey' or 'Hi'. Let me know something that resonates about my profile, interests (kinky or otherwise), or just ask me a question, it's a good way to get a chat going. And I do my best to get back to messages, but sometimes I can get really busy so it can take me a little bit to respond.